Philosophy
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have presided as a non-denominational wedding officiant since
1994. I was brought up in the Christian tradition and have
studied world religions for over thirty years. Inspired by
Buddhism, Sufism and indigenous cultures, I have never joined a
religious group and believe my neutrality enhances a sense of
acceptance when performing ceremonies.
I began leading rituals and ceremonies in 1981
when, as a student teacher, I introduced the first class on
Women's Spirituality at Sonoma State University. I believe
rituals of the world religions were created originally for
particular occasions, and we have the same authority to fashion
individual and unique rites of our own. It seems to me we are in
a time when many people are defining themselves as spiritual but
not religious, with a desire for ceremony with a meaning that is
authentic and specific to their situation.
Sometimes there is a wish to incorporate into
the ceremony a symbol or ritual from a religion or culture, as a
way to honor and pay tribute to the heritage. I have enjoyed
officiating at bilingual Spanish/English ceremonies and weddings
incorporating the rituals, symbols, or sacred words of Islam,
Judaism, Christianity, Buddhism, Native American and earth based
cultures.
Currently I am the resident wedding celebrant
and event planner for Post Ranch Inn, a small luxury hotel in
Big Sur. I also perform ceremonies at other hotels, private
wedding sites, parks and beaches in Big Sur and the Monterey
area. I have great respect for the energy that motivates people
to have a ceremony. I find the time spent creating, leading and
sharing these genuinely meaningful occasions to be inspiring and
deeply satisfying.
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